when a guy told me, he gave his 100% in love, once... a guy friend told me he gave his 100% in love only once... and he gave his all to his first ever girlfriend...
afetr a year of lovey-dovey fantasy story... it was all shattered when he found out that his girlfriend was cheating on him...
Well, i'm not really sure about the whole story but according to some stories that his current girlfriend shared and
the guy as well, it seemed that the cheating really did happen and resulted as a parting of the lovers.
Anyway, the current girlfriend of my guy friend is having difficulties in their relationship.
THE probLem...
Less AFFECTION from the guy and TOO MUCH AFFECTION from the girL
the most common problem in a relationship wether it be the boy gives too much and the girl doesn't...
the same vice versa....
but what i'm thinking as too far away from that ,,,
what i'm thinking is ...
why can't a person give his/her 100% in love, wether it be the first, the second. or even the hundreth time a person
ever loved...
is it because they got hurt...
is it because they were wounded so deep that time can't even heal it..
is it because they are scared to ever trust another person, the fear and shame of being made like a fool...
but even so...
i want to pull out whatever the contents in their heart and mind that love isn't just all about the " THE HAPPILY EVER AFTER-crap"
it's not just about happy times.. not just the kissing scenes and all that...
i want them to remember..
love is also about pain..
it's also about crying your heart out..
it's also about being hurt and crushed...
and despite all that..
you still have the courage of being able to feel sympathy, affection, care and love for a person.
... it's not happily-ever after when you find love and that's it forever..
INSTEAD.. it's partners/lovers trying their hardest to make that happily ever last...
....
i will ask you...
if you have ever loved and gave it your all.. but in the end got clattered, after sometime of healing.. you find another love...
fear overwhelms you of being hurt again so as not to give it your all again
or it's either you no longer want a serious relationship..
don't you feel guilty for your partner?
is it not sad for them as well?
hoping to feel a 100% love..
the feeling of being fragile and special...
and feeling you are what everything means...
are you going to take away the privilege of your partner experience that feeling..?
how dejected one would feel..
...sad....
Sympathy
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Naa nangutana nako, naa ba kunoy mu-agi nga jeep sa CDU Reclamation campus...
Ingon ko "Naa ba kaha sa?"
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-->amnesiac's forget..,
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________________why can't you??.,.,
------>well..i'm not JESUS...i dont forgive unworthy people...im a materialistic person..at least im not a BIATCH.. >_<
keme?? maarte??
haha one of my haters maybe.,., ^__^
i have lots of them! ^__^
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